Sensory Distractions.

Two nights ago, I broke down. Oliver challenged me beyond my coping ability, and I started to cry and think dark thoughts about myself. Perhaps the scariest part was that the dark thoughts weren't scary--they were soothing. Josh got home from an errand, and I told him I might need to go to a hospital. Bruce was on standby too. Josh found information for the local crisis center.

Hoping to get stable on my own, I decided to try sensory distraction. Back rubs or tickles from Josh almost always help me, so I experimented. Josh had brought home a root beer, so I drank that while taking a bath with Epsom salts. Then, I read poems aloud. I didn't exactly feel better, but I felt sane. Bruce also wrote me an E-mail that reminded me that in many ways, I am who I want to be.

The next day, I kept up the sensory distraction. I saw my therapist and talked about my word of the year. I got a cherry Sprite from Sonic. I was driving a lot, so when I had a one-hour gap before I could pick up Josh, I stopped at Michaels. I pulled in the colors to paint my darkened mind. I looked at planner stickers and pretty boxes. The night was too cold for walking, so Bruce and I went to Barnes. I spent a long time in the journals and in the children's area. I liked that Barnes had a shelf just for Newbery Award winners. I flipped through Seventeen to look at articles on makeup. I looked at Victoria magazine (which I couldn't reach. Luckily, Bruce is 6 ft. tall). I sort of bathed in comforts and in reminders of my self.

I have to make good choices for my well-being. I need ways to combat the disease when it reaches to choke me. Bits of strength can change everything.

Staying Healthy.

What I'm Doing to Stay Healthy

Right now, I:

• walk twice a week
• read daily
• write daily
• listen to music
• cuddle with Oliver
• talk to Mom regularly
• cuddle with Josh
• cultivate a powerful friendship
• continue to avoid smoking, alcohol, and drugs completely
• practice trusting others
• go to therapy every other week

And What Else Can I Do?

I can also:

• read another book about BSD
• read another book about ASD
• watch uplifting movies
• walk 3 or 4 times a week
• swim
• get another case manager through health insurance
• finish my BSD workbook
• clean and pick up more (reduce chaos!)
• eat better
• cuddle more