Showing posts with label relaxation. Show all posts
Showing posts with label relaxation. Show all posts

Saturday, June 11, 2016

How to Reset.

Reseting is an important skill for anyone. It helps the body and mind heal from internal pain or struggle. It also helps one face the world again.

Some people might do this with a glass of wine or a long drive. But for people with bipolar disorder, the reset may be much more complicated, and it's more critical because one can only bear the darkness so long. One might need multiple resetting techniques. Here are some of mine. I was diagnosed two years ago, so I'm just getting started.
  • Listen to music and pace or dance. 
  • Clean something (this can help take the energy out of a rage).
  • Go to or watch a movie. I get totally distracted.
  • Take a nap or just lie alone in the dark.
  • Make happy lists like goals and wishes.

Tuesday, April 19, 2016

Relaxation, Comfort, Leisure, Self-Expression

I read somewhere that these were essential for people with bipolar disorder. Of course, they're also important in some form for anyone.

These seem similar, but I guess they aren't really. I like taking a good look at similar words to see their subtle differences.


People with bipolar disorder probably need Relaxation to calm anxiety and to make sleep easier. Relaxation may quiet racing thoughts and pressured speech. But it's hard to get motivated to relax. It might have to be a scheduled activity, something that one does regardless of mood state. Closing one's eyes in sunshine. Lying down and praying. Meditating or doing yoga. Allowing someone else to do a pressing task. 

Comfort is a path to healing, and it can make mood states more bearable. A warm aromatherapy bath . Cool water on one's wrists and arms. Soup with a big spoon. Snuggling into a corner with a generous blanket. Rereading old letters or special E-mails. 

Leisure is a break from work. Since many people with bipolar disorder have trouble with executive functioning, work and house and family management may be especially exhausting and depleting. Leisure is a chance to connect to onself and one's interests. Depression kills connection and passion. But a stretch of time may awaken a person, whether he or she is ill or stable. When we have time to do whatever we want, we get to see what matters. 

Self-Expression makes good use of maddening energy. The bipolar mind is wild--both dangerous and fascinating. It needs at outlet--probably more than one. A person with bipolar disorder needs at least one patient listener who will hear racing thoughts yet also be comfortable in silence.